Gay bear (GB) meets a really nice handsome straight bear (SB) at work… and because SB is really nice (Physical and Personal), and because a bear is a bear, GB falls in love with the SB. SB welcomes the GB’s friendly gestures, however, keeps flirting with women (Ewww). GB realize that there is no way he is going to get his hands (or any other limbs) around SB, but cannot help being too friendly with SB. Now, GB is in tight spot: he does not want to scare SB away by being too close, but at the same time…he cannot hold himself back, as when he sees SB, he jumps around him like a dog wanting to play Frisbee… WHAT DO YOU THINK GB SHOULD DO?

PS : GB IS STILL IN THE CAVE... I MEAN CLOSET… and single

Hot: Unrequited love, don’t they movies about this stuff?

Heavy: Yea, on Llifetime.  Either that or you just end up on Jenny Jones or Springer. NEVER PRETTY!

Hot: Reminds me of the Countess – “Oh, l'amour, l'amour, how it can let you down.”

Heavy: GB leave SB alone and go find a good man, a true man – but most of all a GAY man. Unless, SB his some inclinations we are all unaware of – he’s not likely to be changing teams anytime soon. This one has heartache written all of it – if not a sexual harassment lawsuit. Oh, honey – not where you eat!!

Hot: And about the cave thing? – it’s spring, time to come out!!!

Resource Guides to Coming Out

Do you have questions about the coming out journey? The Human Rights Campaign has a set of resources to help you along the way. Download a copy of the newly released Resource Guide to Coming Out, or read it online. Or download Resource Guide to Coming Out for African Americans, the Spanish-language Guía de Recursos Para Salir Del Clóset or the guide to Living Openly in Your Place of Worship.