May 06, 2008

Happy No Diet Day

International No Diet Day (INDD) is an annual celebration of body acceptance and diversity. It is observed on May 6 each year.

Dieting represents a huge money maker to the industry, despite is high failure rate. Only 5 to 10 percent of us succeed, but we all contribute to the staggering $40 billion in revenue amassed by the weight-loss industry annually. By the year 2006, revenues are estimated to top $48 billion.

According to Bankrate’s “10 things the Diet Companies Don’t Want You to Know”: All three of the largest national weight loss chains -- Weight Watchers, Jenny Craig and LA Weight Loss -- continue to make millions in revenue. In 2003, Weight Watchers' revenue was approximately $943 million, while Jenny Craig saw $280 million and LA Weight Loss climbed from revenues of $105 million in 2001 to $250 million and counting in 2003.

According to the Marketdata's John LaRosa, costs of these programs vary regionally (franchises have latitude in what they charge) and individually. On average, joining Jenny Craig will set you back between $199 and $299 initially, plus $70 per week to buy its meals. Weight Watchers charges $29 to join and between $8 and $12 per week for meetings. LA Weight Loss sells a year's program in advance and averages $575 for a full year's service. Costs could go higher, depending on how many of the company's bars and supplements you buy. Marketdata Enterprises, Inc., is an independent Tampa-based market research firm.

There is big money in making you feel bad about yourself. Advertisers have a vested interest in selling you an unobtainable ideal. Since, you can never actually reach you goal, you keep buying. Beyond the financial costs are dieting are the true costs to your health and self-esteem. One of every 11 commercials has a direct message about beauty (this isn't counting the indirect ones).

So, today get off the diet roller coaster. Stop doing that to your body. Restrictive diets deprive the body of much needed nutrients and the weight tends to come back once you resume normal eating habits.

Instead of dieting, why not vow (and what better day than “No Diet Day” to do so) to eat healthier. Most of our diets could be a little healthier (Ok, mine could be a lot healthier). Eat more green things (and I’m not talking about the moldy donut you found rolling around the backseat), drink more water, and get out there and move.

If you’re not exercising, think about a walk in the park at lunch. Take the dog to the beach or the woods – whatever is nearby (he’ll thank you, too!). Go out and buy yourself a nice pair of walking shoes, and treat yourself to a little fresh air.

Finally, most diet ads are about making us feel bad because we are not supermodels. C’mon, you’re not really buying that are you? Appreciate your body – it has done a lot of wonderful things for you. It is you – uniquely you – embrace it. Find time to pamper it. Be nice to it. Don’t deprive it!! The cliché is that it’s what’s on the insides that counts, well – I can promise you until you start to feel good about you, it won’t matter what shape you’re in.

Stop, think about all you’ve accomplished. What have you done today to make yourself proud? We’ll deal with tomorrow, tomorrow.

May 05, 2008

THE BEARS OF SUMMER

Bikini season already?

Buzzed Beef by Buzzed Beef

Greetins yall!

Thought I would turn on a little southern charm this week. I do miss summers back home; not the wretched heat, but the good times: swimmin' in a clay pit, cool air-conditioning, my dad's summer tomatoes. For most of the US, summer is here or on its way. Are you ready for shirtless days? I wish I was as prepared as I would like to be.

Summers used to be horrors for me. There was always the risk of having to take my shirt off. I have wrestled with this particular demon for years. Only in the last few years has the thought of being shirtless not petrified me with fear.

As I move into these summer months, my gym focus is going to be doing work that makes me more comfortable with my body. The results may not be close to my ultimate goals, but a step in the right direction. I am going to focus on my diet and eat to nourish my body and fuel it without hindering it. I am going to use both building and toning exercises to help me shape up more. I am going to set realistic goals within a reasonable time frame and work to them.

It's roughly 8 weeks until the 4th of July. That is my goal to reach my summer body....roughly half the summer to work my body and half to enjoy the fruits of my efforts (as I continue to work it, of course).

Hugs (and licks if you want 'em)

Bear Fitness

May 04, 2008

Mistress of Procurement

I went to IMsL and all I got was one boot

Exiles - Rope, Larry & Liza We are pleased to announce that our very own Mistress of Procurement was a contestant in this year's International Ms. Leather contest (L to R - Rope, Larry & Liza).

Liza was first runner up to the title.

Congratulations to Hobbit who is the 2008 IMsL titleholder and Cue who is the 2008 International Ms Bootblack. And a very special thank you to one and all who made us feel welcome.

The 22nd Annual International Ms Leather contest and the 10th Anniversary of the International Ms Bootblack contest returned to San Francisco this past weekend.

IMsL can boast being the longest running women's leather competition. There is no other contest with its history. No women's contest has continually brought fierce, yet friendly, competition of leather women, educational seminars, one-stop shopping for all kinky needs at the vendors' space, and, of course, hot play parties around the clock.

. . .and Liza's fantasy rocked!!

Next, its off to IML - see ya in Chicago! Ask me about the boot . . .

IMsL 2008

May 03, 2008

Who were your role models?

As a gay man (or where ever you fall on the spectrum) what role models did you have growing up? How did these role models (or the lack there of) affect you?

Here's what you told us -  

  • I don't know about anyone else but I had no male role models growing up who I actually identified with.  I was raised in a small town and felt like I was completely alone, relative to being gay.  The only hint of anything gay was the occasional stereotypical portrayal that was presented as comic relief on a sitcom.
  • When I was twelve, my cousin was doing theater and she became best friends with a gay guy from the cast. He was very effeminate and caused a quite a stir with my extended family. But, he was accepted. One day, he complimented my mother's shoes and asked if he could try them on. My mother let him and they were the same size.  His example gave me hope that, one day, I, too, might be accepted by my family.

Tell us your experiences . . .

May 01, 2008

Into the Wild

alaska

Equipping the Larger Paddler by Wes Boyd

Until fairly recently, the opportunities for larger kayakers -- weighing, say, 250 pounds and up -- have been limited due to the lack of boats and gear adequately sized for them. While the "extra-large" kayakers still don't have the selection that's available to their smaller brethren, manufacturers and dealers have started to take notice that it's a growing market. Even so, adequately equipping and training the larger kayaker can have its challenges.

I'm one of those large sized guys. When I first got back into kayaking, after years away from it, I was nearly a hundred pounds larger than I'd been before. There wasn't much gear available for the big guy -- it seemed like all the neat boats and great gear were designed for people half my 300-pound weight, and I was left out in the cold.

Over a period of time, with lots of searching around and trying things out, I discovered that while the situation was bleak, it wasn't impossible. It's been a slow learning process, but I've found out, at least partly from other people that have the same problems, that kayaking is something perfectly reasonable for the bigger person.

Wes Boyd is a country newspaper editor from southern Michigan who's been paddling off and on for 40 years, mostly on inland lakes and the Great Lakes. His non-commercial hobby web site, kayakplace.com, has a lot of resources for the larger kayaker and much besides.